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Why You Can’t Make Good Decisions When You’re Stressed to the Max

In fight-or-flight, the brain has more activity in emotion centers and less in decision-making. Here’s one tool to calm it.

When we’re “stressed out,” our nervous system is reacting to a perceived life threat — muscles tense in preparation for action: the fight-or-flight response.

In fight-or-flight mode, the brain has more activity in the areas associated with emotions and less in the areas associated with decision-making. The vagus nerve acts as the “braking system” to fight-or-flight, restoring calm.

Here is ONE tool to calm your nervous system today: reach over the top of your shoulder, squeeze the tissue, and drag your hand over your shoulder down to your collarbone. Alternate sides six to eight times. Pause and notice — your breathing may have slowed, your heart and mind likely stopped racing.

You’re bombarded daily with situations that make your nervous system perceive threat — we all are. That’s why it’s critical to arm yourself with tools to calm it. I teach the skills to balance your nervous system in everyday life — immediately usable and life-changing. Learn how.

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